AI-Powered Relationship Safety

Instantly Spot Toxic Behavior & Warning Signs in Anyone Using AI

RedFlag AI helps you identify concerning patterns in relationships by analyzing behaviors across multiple categories. Get personalized insights, safety plans, and actionable steps to protect yourself.

๐Ÿ”ด Wintego spy RedFlag Detector AI โ€“ Chat and Conversations Analyzer
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This is a simulation. No actual NLP, OCR, or speech recognition is performed.

Relationship Chat Simulation (Choices)

Relationship Chat Simulation (User Input)

Chat Analysis Demo
This is a **chat analysis demo** that shows how an AI assistant helps users understand red flags in relationship messages.

This is a simulation. All chats are fictional.

Raw Messages (WhatsApp/IG/FB Style)

Hey, why didn't you call me last night? I was waiting up.

10:05 AM

Oh, I'm so sorry! My phone died and I fell asleep early. I was exhausted.

10:07 AM

But I saw you online on Instagram at 2 AM. You were liking posts.

10:08 AM

What? No, I wasn't. You must be mistaken. I was definitely asleep.

10:10 AM

I have a screenshot, Alice. Why are you lying to me?

10:12 AM

You're always so suspicious! Why do you need to track my every move? It's suffocating!

10:15 AM

I'm not tracking you, I just saw you online. I'm hurt that you lied.

10:17 AM

I just want us to be happy. I promise I'll be better, I'll change. You're the only one for me, my love.

10:20 AM

I don't know, Alice. I need to think.

10:22 AM

Don't you love me? After everything I've done for you? My friends say you're being unreasonable.

10:25 AM

I feel like you're trying to make me feel bad for having my own feelings.

10:27 AM

I'm just trying to understand why you're so distant lately. It feels like you're pulling away.

10:30 AM

I'm not distant, I'm just processing. This conversation is a lot.

10:32 AM

Fine. Just don't come crying to me when you realize you've pushed me away for good.

10:35 AM

That's not fair, Alice. I need space to think, not threats.

10:37 AM

I'm sorry, I didn't mean it. I just get scared. You know how much I love you.

10:40 AM

AI Analyzed Messages (with Insights)

Hey, why didn't you call me last night? I was waiting up.

10:05 AM

Oh, I'm so sorry! My phone died and I fell asleep early. I was exhausted.

10:07 AM
[Deflection Pattern] Shifting blame to external factors (phone, exhaustion).

But I saw you online on Instagram at 2 AM. You were liking posts.

10:08 AM

What? No, I wasn't. You must be mistaken. I was definitely asleep.

10:10 AM
[Gaslighting Detected] Denying reality to make partner doubt their perception.
[Lying Likely โ€“ Inconsistency Found] Direct contradiction of verifiable fact.

I have a screenshot, Alice. Why are you lying to me?

10:12 AM

You're always so suspicious! Why do you need to track my every move? It's suffocating!

10:15 AM
[Blame Inversion] Accusing partner of their own negative behavior (lying).
[Victim Playing] Portraying self as victim to avoid accountability.

I'm not tracking you, I just saw you online. I'm hurt that you lied.

10:17 AM

I just want us to be happy. I promise I'll be better, I'll change. You're the only one for me, my love.

10:20 AM
[Future Promises] Making grand promises without concrete action to avoid present accountability.
[Love Bombing Detected] Excessive affection/declarations to regain control after conflict.

I don't know, Alice. I need to think.

10:22 AM

Don't you love me? After everything I've done for you? My friends say you're being unreasonable.

10:25 AM
[Emotional Blackmail] Using guilt and obligation to manipulate partner.
[Triangulation] Bringing in third parties to validate their position and pressure partner.

I feel like you're trying to make me feel bad for having my own feelings.

10:27 AM
[Assertive Communication] Clearly stating personal feelings and observations.

I'm just trying to understand why you're so distant lately. It feels like you're pulling away.

10:30 AM
[Passive-Aggressive] Indirectly accusing partner of distance while feigning concern.

I'm not distant, I'm just processing. This conversation is a lot.

10:32 AM
[Setting Boundaries] Communicating need for space and processing time.

Fine. Just don't come crying to me when you realize you've pushed me away for good.

10:35 AM
[Threat/Ultimatum] Using threats of abandonment to control partner's behavior.
[Emotional Manipulation] Attempting to induce guilt and fear.

That's not fair, Alice. I need space to think, not threats.

10:37 AM
[Direct Confrontation] Directly addressing unfair behavior and setting a boundary.

I'm sorry, I didn't mean it. I just get scared. You know how much I love you.

10:40 AM
[Future Promises/Love Bombing] Quick apology followed by declarations of love to de-escalate and regain control.
Interactive Relationship Timeline
This is an **interactive relationship timeline** simulator. It's designed to help users understand how emotional manipulation unfolds gradually.

This is an awareness tool โ€” not tracking. All data and chats are fictional and for educational demo only.

Week 1
The Honeymoon Phase

Love Bombing

[Pattern: Intense Idealization Detected]
Week 2
Subtle Shifts

Silent Treatment Begins

[Pattern: Emotional Withdrawal Identified]
Week 3
Escalation of Control

Gaslighting & Accusations

[Pattern: Reality Distortion & Blame-Shifting]
Week 4
The Cycle Resets

Apology Loop & Future Promises

[Pattern: Behavioral Loop Identified]
๐Ÿ”ด Toxic Behavior Heatmap โ€“ Powered by RedFlag AI
Visualize and understand patterns of concerning behavior over time. This is a simulation for demonstration purposes.
๐Ÿ”บ Toxicity Spike Detected โ€“ Fridays are the most emotionally abusive.
โš ๏ธ Guilt-Tripping increased by 120% this week.
Weekly Red Flag Tracker
Count of detected red flags over the last 4 weeks.
Frequent Patterns
Top detected toxic behaviors and their counts.
๐Ÿ˜ Jealousy
27x
๐Ÿ˜”Guilt Trips
18x
๐Ÿ‘‘Narcissism
13x
๐Ÿ’ญGaslighting
10x
๐ŸงŠStonewalling
8x
Emotional Abuse Intensity Calendar
Daily emotional abuse intensity over the month.
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Toxicity Trend
Rising or falling toxicity over time.

See the patterns before they become pain.

Mood Tracker
Track your mood over time, especially after chat interactions, to observe patterns.

How are you feeling right now?

Quick Safety Check

5 simple questions to check your relationship safety

Question 1 of 5

Do you feel safe expressing your opinions?

Daily Check-In

Friday, August 8, 2025

How are you feeling about your relationship today?

Relationship Health Meter

Quick assessment of your relationship's overall health

Communication is open and honest

We respect each other's boundaries

We support each other's goals

Conflicts are resolved fairly

We trust each other

We enjoy spending time together

We maintain our individual identities

Physical and emotional intimacy feels good

0%
Needs Attention

Multiple concerns detected. Professional support recommended.

Red Flag Counter

Track concerning behaviors over time

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No Flags
Checked my phone without permission
0
Made me feel guilty for spending time with friends
0
Raised their voice or yelled at me
0
Made me question my own memory
0
Controlled what I could wear or do
0
Threatened to leave during an argument
0
Made me feel like I'm walking on eggshells
0
Dismissed my feelings as 'overreacting'
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Trust Thermometer

How much do you trust your partner right now?

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Gaslighting
Severe
Making you question your reality and memory
๐Ÿงจ
Emotional Blackmail
Severe
Using guilt, fear, or obligation for control
๐Ÿง›
Narcissistic Abuse
Severe
Ego-centered manipulation and control
๐Ÿซณ
Coercive Control
Severe
Systematic domination of daily life
๐Ÿงท
Trauma Bonding
Severe
Addiction through abuse-reconciliation cycles
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Gaslight + Guilt Combo
Severe
Double-bind reality distortion
๐Ÿ’ฃ
Love Bombing
High
Overwhelming affection for control
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Isolation
High
Cutting off support systems
๐ŸงŠ
Stonewalling
High
Deliberate silence as punishment
๐Ÿ‘ป
Ghosting + Control
High
Disappearing to reset power
โš–๏ธ
Blame Inversion
High
Accusing you of their behaviors
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Triangulation
High
Using third parties for control
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Intermittent Reinforcement
High
Unpredictable rewards/punishments
๐Ÿ
Passive-Aggressive Abuse
Medium
Indirect hostility and sabotage
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Target Shifting
Medium
Moving goalposts constantly
๐Ÿ”ฎ
Future Promises
Medium
False promises that never materialize

Select multiple patterns above to see if they form dangerous combinations

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Core Features

AI-Powered Pattern Recognition

  • Real-time behavioral analysis using machine learning
  • Cross-reference multiple behavioral indicators
  • Context-aware assessment based on relationship type
  • Evidence-based scoring system
  • Predictive risk modeling for escalation patterns

22+ Relationship Types Coverage

  • **Personal:** Romantic Partner, Family Member, Friend, Ex-Partner
  • **Professional:** Boss/Colleague, Therapist, Doctor, Lawyer, Mentor
  • **Authority:** Teacher/Coach, Spiritual Leader, Landlord, Authority Figure
  • **Specialized:** Step-Parent, Neighbor, Online Contact, Business Partner
  • **Infidelity-Specific:** Cheating Wife/Girlfriend, Cheating Husband/Boyfriend

20+ Manipulation Pattern Detection

  • **Severe Patterns:** Gaslighting, Emotional Blackmail, Narcissistic Abuse
  • **Control Tactics:** Coercive Control, Love-Bombing, Isolation
  • **Emotional Abuse:** Trauma Bonding, Silent Treatment, Stonewalling
  • **Psychological Tactics:** Blame-Shifting, Information Control, Triangulation
AI Analysis & Detection

Emotional Impact Assessment

  • Self-worth and identity impact evaluation
  • Emotional well-being tracking across 7 key areas
  • Physical health correlation analysis
  • Daily functioning impact measurement
  • Stress and anxiety pattern recognition

Advanced Analytics Dashboard

  • Interactive data visualization with charts and graphs
  • Trend analysis across multiple assessments
  • Category breakdown and risk progression tracking
  • Comparative analysis tools with export capabilities
  • Custom date ranges and pattern correlation analysis

Personalized Insights Engine

  • AI-generated contextual analysis for your specific situation
  • Cultural sensitivity in recommendations
  • Risk-appropriate response strategies
  • Personalized healing path suggestions
  • Professional referral matching based on your needs
Safety & Protection

Personalized Safety Planning

  • Emergency contact management system
  • Safe location identification and planning
  • Escape route documentation
  • Essential items checklist generation
  • Warning signs and coping strategies development

Emergency Resource Integration

  • Crisis hotline directory with instant access
  • Local resource finder based on your location
  • 24/7 support access with multi-language support
  • Professional referral network
  • Quick dial functionality for emergencies
Progress Tracking & Analytics

Behavior Change Tracking

  • Assessment history comparison across time
  • Behavior trend analysis with visual charts
  • Risk level progression monitoring
  • Category-specific improvement tracking
  • Early warning system for escalation patterns

Timeline Analysis ((New Feature))

  • Chronological behavior mapping
  • Event correlation analysis to identify triggers
  • Pattern emergence tracking over time
  • Critical incident identification
  • Recovery progress visualization with milestones
Support & Resources

Comprehensive Reporting

  • Professional PDF report generation
  • Detailed assessment summaries with insights
  • Safety plan documentation for sharing
  • Resource recommendations tailored to your situation
  • Progress reports for tracking improvement

Educational Resource Library

  • Evidence-based articles on relationship health
  • Safety guides and healing resources
  • Professional insights and expert interviews
  • Interactive guides and video resources
  • Research-based content on manipulation tactics

Community Support Integration ((Premium))

  • Support group finder and community forum access
  • Peer support connections with anonymous participation
  • Expert-led sessions and moderated discussions
  • Regional meetups and online support groups
Privacy & Security

Complete Privacy Protection

  • Local browser processing (no server uploads)
  • No account required for basic usage
  • Anonymous assessment completion
  • Encrypted data storage with user control
  • GDPR compliance and automatic data deletion options
Additional Capabilities

Cultural Context Adaptation

  • Western and Eastern cultural considerations
  • Religious community awareness
  • Traditional family structure sensitivity
  • Regional resource recommendations
  • Multi-language support capabilities

Smart Search & Navigation

  • Real-time search across all relationship types
  • Advanced filtering by category and severity
  • Keyword highlighting and suggestion system
  • Bookmark favorites for quick access
  • Efficient navigation with quick filters
Free vs Premium Comparison:

Free

  • All 22+ relationship assessments
  • All 20+ manipulation pattern detection
  • Basic AI analysis and insights
  • Safety planning tools
  • Emergency resource access
  • Basic progress tracking

Premium

  • Advanced AI with predictive modeling
  • Community support access
  • Expert consultation opportunities
  • Advanced timeline analysis
  • Priority customer support
  • Extended analytics capabilities
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